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“CHANGING THE GAME” “Psycho” Gangsta Rap/R&B Artist

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ATLANTA- Digital Downloads of the hottest Ganagsta Rap Female in the game “Psycho” are to be released on iTunes, iheartradio, XBox Live, Amazon Music, Tidal, Google Play, You Tube and etc.

Melika Jett was born in Memphis, TN. Her stage name PSYCHO came from her little brother, whose nickname was Lunitic. He encouraged her to start rapping and always told Melika that her swag was crazy and her lyrics were psycho. The siblings formed a rap group and began creating music together.4W5A0138

In 2000, Psycho met Goldfingas in New Orleans. At the time, Goldfingas was with a record label in Tampa, FL called Ridin Dirty. Two years later, they had all left Ridin Dirty to start their own record label. Goldfingas, Psycho, and Lunitic founded GUMBO in 2002. Melika is not only a phenomenal lyricist but she is also an awesome athlete. At Memphis Central High School, she played basketball, softball, and volleyball. She also ran track. Her athleticism landed her a basketball scholarship to Jackson State University where she Won awards, including Freshman of the Year and SWAC All-Star Team. Melika become the MVP for everything she pursues.

She has recorded and wrote hundreds of songs with street edge, a raspy voice, real stories and a unique style. Goldfingas production is proud to launch this bright artist into the limelight. Melika She has arrived on the scene and the world is ready to receive her.

New York “Hottest Party Promoter” Monick Monell

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Monick Monell is the one to watch in Brooklyn N.Y. By day she is a direct care worker for an organization where most of the clients and employees are LGBT. By night she is one of the premiere promoters for BrooklynbredNyc, LLC clothing line and the NY gay club scene. Monick is an avid fan of lesbian reality shows and will be soon starring in the “LezFactor.”The LezFactor is based out of California, but will be stationed in NYC for taping in April 2016. Having the LezFactor in NYC will give those outside of the area a glimpse of “The Brooklyn Way,” exclaimed Monick.

Monick affirmation is for the LGBT Community to become one as a family no matter the gender or label they subscribe too. Monick describes her style as very Chic and Dapper reminiscent of the 1920’s where suspenders, ties, and belts were worn at all times. Monick credits her grandfather as the source of her inspiration who stressed the importance of dressing to impress and to always be clean cut freshly pressed.

Monick is married to Simerette Phillips Monellwhere they share their home with six rescue pets whom they passionately call their “crazy kids.” The Monell’smoved to NYC shortly after living in Virginia where they experienced a multitude of disrespect and refusal to acknowledge their relationship. Today the Monell’s are living happily in Brooklyn where they enjoy the freedom and respect of their union.

“The Other Blue Pill That Could!”

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Growing up as a young, same-gender loving (SGL) man of color, I heard a lot about HIV. I heard family members make jokes about it, I saw peers stigmatize others in the community for being positive, and I knew how widespread the HIV epidemic was within the black community, especially for SGL men of color.

Fast forward to today… I have been on the other blue pill, known as Truvada, for about three months. This oral antiretroviral preexposure prophylaxis is a preventive drug also known as PrEP, which virtually prevents HIV infection if taken once a day as recommended. Before going on PrEP, there were three reasons I had for considering it as a precautionary measure for my health:

  1. According to the Black AIDS Institute 2012 report Back of the Line, 25 percent of black gay and bisexual men will have HIV by age 25; about 60 percent of black gay and bisexual men will have HIV by age 40.
  2. I’ve always wanted to donate my organs and body for the higher purpose of scientific research, which some laws and policies would prevent me from doing if I ever became HIV positive.
  3. Through the years, I’ve seen one gay relative and close friend after the next become HIV positive, which to me made it feel as though HIV was ringing at my doorbell. The statistics were simply too real!

I never thought that initiating a dialogue with my partner about considering PrEP would breed distrust or suspicions of infidelity, but it did. Despite my partner’s reservations, I called my doctor and scheduled an appointment to explore PrEP further. Before agreeing to prescribe the drug, he made sure to educate me regarding all of its pertinent information, as well as conducted labs and completed screenings for HIV, STIs, and kidney/liver health.

When the time came to discuss the drug’s cost, my doctor informed me that it would be expensive but that most insurance plans provide coverage to assist. Upon leaving the doctor’s appointment to pick up the prescription, I was nevertheless flabbergasted when the pharmacist informed me that the price would exceed $500 dollars — and that was with my insurance. After extensive research, I learned of the Patient Assistance Network (PAN), a program available for individuals with such gaps in their insurance coverage. Thanks to PAN, at my second visit to the pharmacy, my prescription cost was zero.

Full disclosure? Surprisingly, my earliest experience taking the medication wasn’t so pleasant. Although most people who take PrEP report no side effects, for me there were two major ones that kicked in by day three: nausea and dizziness. I was relieved to learn that studies had shown that such side effects typically diminish after three weeks of use, and even more relieved when everything was indeed back to normal for me by then.

As a same-gender loving man of color who works in the field of HIV prevention, I understand that I have a platform and a responsibility to lead by example. Since taking PrEP, I’ve embraced my subsequent influence among peers and clients, guiding them through prudent decision-making about whether PrEP could be a good idea for them in addition to other risk reduction strategies including condoms, seropositioning, sexual exclusivity, and/or regular testing.

Three months into taking PrEP regularly, I am sure that the drug is revolutionary for the peace of mind it brings, instilling not only hope but also assurance to same-gender loving men who once felt doomed to succumb to the self-fulling prophecy that, “It’s not a matter of if you get HIV, it’s a matter of when.” In the end, PrEP isn’t just a pill. It’s an intervention.

 

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“Even In Death Prince is Causing Controversy”

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Even in Death, Prince is causing the same Controversy he sang about his entire life. (Controversy, pun intended!) I think it’s because people now realize what a Powerful, Gifted man he truly was. Think about it! He dared to be himself in a world full of judgment. He introduced the world to a beautiful human spirit that none could deny was uniquely created to gift us with music. Because of his mystique and elusiveness, rumors swirled throughout his life with invasive questions such as, “Is he straight? Is he gay? Is he black? Is he white?) These questions may have arisen because of his outer expression of his presentation to the world. Whenever seen in public, Prince always adorned make up high heels and flamboyant attire .

Prince’s music was very sexually suggestive, and early in his career very sexually explicit. Prince’s battle was against a world which demanded he Live in a Box in order to make others feel comfortable. However, Prince blew the box up instead. Prince’s presentation was androgynous and queer which was frowned upon in a heternormative society (and still is, to the hypocrisy of many) but he never conformed to fit in. Prince also left no answers for the hypocrites who thought they were entitled to his personal and private life because it is (None Of Your Damn Business).

I am so glad that I got to fully experience the musical genius Prince from the beginning of his career until the end — because to those who denied his brilliance and declined to support him all because of his queerness, “The JOKE was on You!”
To the enjoyment of us who LOVED❤ the musical genius Prince we rode the train to the last stop, didn’t we? ❤

“An Aftermath of the Resurrection”

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In the wake of all that Christianity brings, I believe it is safe to say that claiming to be Christian is beneficial while simultaneously unfavorable, which in this case sounds oxymoronic, if you would ask me. Among the benefits that Christians gain is a life filled with blessings. However, among the risks that one encounters are attacks on every hand as a result of those very blessings. “Christians who are living blessed know that the more they have, the greater the attacks on them can be,” says Dr. William H. Curtis. This is the life which those claiming Christianity as their faith have grown to embrace, often a difficult walk, and sometimes even a fight. For those who struggle with staying afloat, Good News comes by way of the resurrection. Despite disappointing experiences, Curtis encourages us all to, “Embrace the good in life and celebrate your blessings because they do move you closer as opposed to further from God as some would have you believe.”
You will discover that many of the forerunners in the early church endured similar attacks because of their beliefs. As an authoritative messenger and interpreter of the gospel (1 Peter 3:13-18), Peter writes to those Christians who were forced into exile, forced to lose benefits, and forced to undergo a great suffering. Many were persecuted because of their naysayers’ non-scatological feelings about the message and ministry of Jesus. Truth told, those naysayers even threatened to split the church with their religious dissensions. However, Peter lays out a classical culture pertaining to those who have been coined as “outcasts.” He argues that you have been chosen by God while at the same time expelled from the very same place God has called you, simply because others have told you that you possess less power because of your doctrine, your gender identity, your vocal tonality, or your sexual orientation. Peter’s message suggests that during times in exile, your suffering requires you to reflect upon the cross as a symbolic message of your equality.
First, what the cross says to you as an LGBT individual is that your suffering will pay off. As Peter writes to encourage those Christians who were placed in isolation and regarded as underdogs, he emphasizes that these Christians who were ostracized from their homelands were indeed still laborers of Christ. What this tells you is that many of you may be or may have been persecuted because of your progressive theological beliefs. However, what you have suffered, some people are not willing to endure for the sake of Christ. Thus, 1 Peter 3:14 explains, you will triumph in your suffering.
How does one triumph in suffering? According to Peter, that triumph comes by overcoming your fear. David Walls and Max Anders argue that, “Opponents often attempt to intimidate believers to change their “right” behavior or to deny their “right” beliefs. . . . In the midst of suffering for what is right, believers are sometimes intimidated into running from their belief system or running from their circumstances.” Chad Griffin, president of the Human Rights Campaign, resisted fear by lobbying for LGBT civil rights, and the movement ultimately won marriage equality. Griffin is a great example of how Christ calls you from your complacency of unconcern and disinterest in the welfare of others and bids you not to turn a blind eye to oppressive behaviors affecting your community. Being a slave to Christianity summons you into righteous living; prompts you to be unafraid; and requires you to stand when no one else wants to stand, speak when others don’t want to speak, love when others hate, accept what others reject.
Curtis explains that fears have caused a lot of people to be held up, held back, or held still. He further adds, “…the moment you allow fear into your spiritual life, you run the risk of arriving late to achieving your potential.” Fear diminishes the faith of the believer and makes what seems possible impossible. Had Peter not written to those who were in exile, they may not have believed that they were still a chosen people of God. Sometimes, having the courage to overcome fear is an act of disobedience to man but of obedience to God. Going against fear is utilizing your faith, which Curtis calls spiritual defiance: “It is a righteous rebellion against your own ‘messed up’ reality.” In organizing the Cathedral of Praise Church of Memphis, Inc., I would have succumbed to fear had I not listened to the voice of God. I lost some engagements, lost some family, lost some friends, and endured folks’ efforts to discredit my integrity — all for my premise of establishing a church for all people. Yet God is still blessing our church. We are growing. Lives are being touched, people are being healed, relationships are being mended, and souls are being saved simply because I found confidence in the word of God.
Secondly, you triumph ethically (1 Peter 3:16). “Even if you do suffer for doing what is right, you are blessed” (1 Peter 3:14). Over time, countless anti-Christian haters have dishonored God’s chosen people. However, Matthew Henry says, “It is sometimes the will of God that good people should suffer for well-doing, for their honesty, and for their faith.” Some people may boycott, protest, and speak evil about anything that you stand for. For instance, Rev. Edwin Sanders of Metropolitan International Church (MIC), Nashville, TN, started a First Response Center, a primary care clinic that provides HIV/AIDS testing and treatment, prevention, and education to the community. At one point, many Black churches disassociated themselves from MIC due to social stigma. But over time there has been a shift in theological perspectives regarding the LGBT agenda as understanding has spread that just as heterosexual individuals are God’s chosen, so are LGBT individuals. When one does right as Rev. Edwin Sanders and MIC have done, then nothing that the world throws can inflict harm.
Finally, you triumph in your exaltation with Christ. Peter illustrates later in the text that Jesus becomes the model for rejection, and yet He is still exalted. Much like Him, many of us have been rejected on every hand. Bishop O.C. Allen, III, Presiding Prelate of the United Progressive Pentecostal Church Fellowship and the pastor of the Vision Cathedral, Atlanta, GA, was once alienated by the church because of his theological stance on inclusivity. But now as a social justice advocate, Bishop Allen serves on the Presidential Advisory Council on HIV/AIDS for the White House and U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. If Peter was here today, he would argue in conclusion that Bishop Allen’s unwarranted rejection was a means of obtaining glory, just as Christ’s underserved rejection had been. Christ endured his suffering, overcame fear, and stood up against wicked mistreatment. He suffered on behalf of the unjust and the unaccepted. He hung, bled, and died for the sake of rejection — for the purpose of being abandoned. He died so that you and I could be free. He died to disrupt society’s protocols. He died to dismantle theological beliefs and individualistic theologies. And because he died, Christ was exalted — exalted above hatred, oppression, disunity, fear, and bigotry. Therefore, we must walk in truth knowing that Christ died and rose just so we can live as openly, lovingly, and earnestly as we truly are.
notes: choice of pronoun “you” often throughout, structural/organizational issues throughout (main idea-supporting detail deviations) which may possibly be rectified by cutting out unjustified word count to streamline the message from start to finish, especially regarding full page to address first point versus a half for the next two feels unbalanced as flow for readability; anticlimactic conclusion that deviates from main point to sum up with the same ending as any typical sunday sermon… should perhaps ride a more original point on home through to that ending, preferably pertaining more directly to the aftermath theme and main idea?…

Your Life’s Purpose is Calling. Will You Answer?

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“Where would you have me to go? What would you have me to do? What would you have me to say and to whom?” -Marianne Williamson

How many of you have ever asked yourself, “What is the Purpose of my Life?” For me, this question had been an obsession of my preeminent thoughts for years. Unbeknown to me, the very essence of my mission at Earth’s School was the assignment I had for so long fought so hard against.

The God I have come to know has such a sense of humor. I believe God allows us to use our “free will” when it comes to making our life choices. Philosophers argue that “free will” allows one to make free and independent choices and reject the idea that human actions are determined by fate. I don’t know if I was unconsciously thinking I controlled my own fate, but I do know that many of my past choices were often met with poorly executed results and delivered me some of my hardest life lessons. As each lesson unfolded, I was often left feeling dispirited, which was followed by bouts of emptiness, bitterness, anguish, dejection, regret, pain and confusion. Yet these are the experiences that had to unfold in order for me to find my path of spiritual enlightenment and transformation.

As I examined my life from a spiritual perspective, the visions of God’s plan for me revealed themselves. Each subtle sign guided me closer to finding my life’s purpose, which frightened the heck out of me. I knew I was called to be in ministry, but I wrestled against the call because I had other plans for my life, and those plans did not involve ministry — or so I thought. Your Life’s Purpose is Calling, Gwendolyn… Who me, the Gambler? Who me, the Lesbian? Who me, the Liar? Who me, the… well, you get the picture. It wasn’t until I answered God’s call into Ministry in 2013, that my purpose for attending Earth’s School was affirmed. I’m not saying that you have to be in the ministry to “Get It.” I’m merely sharing my story about my path of spiritual enlightenment.

The ironic culmination of this story is how much cynicism I received upon announcing my call into ministry.  The celebration I wanted to share of being called to live a higher life and of doing God’s work was met with side eyes and crooked lips. The popular opinion was that Kingdom building was not reserved for a person of my qualifications and that my anointing was somehow an oxymoron. The beautiful ending to this story is that neither man nor woman can qualify or disqualify your assignment. Praise the Lord…

This 2016 May/June Entrepreneur Issue is personally important to me because this magazine is one of the reflections of my life’s purpose. The plans I had for myself pale in comparison to the plan God has laid out before me. Finally, surrendering to a life I fought so long against has yielded me the largest reward. Now, that’s the “oxymoron” in this story!

Here are 10 things I want you to consider if you, too, are searching for your Life’s purpose:

  1. Ask God for affirmation in prayer, “What is it that I was sent to Earth’s School to learn?”

  2. Become clear about your question and be ready to receive your answer.

  3. Learn to meditate. (The voice of God is speaking to you. LISTEN.)

  4. Conquer the fear of failure and success. (God’s decision will never make you betray yourself.)

  5. Stop letting others dictate who you should be and how you should live. (No one has the authority to judge you but God).

  6. Live authentically. (You aren’t living a full life if you aren’t connected to the spirit of who you are.)

  7. Do what gives you meaning. (Embrace new beginnings.)

  8. Examine every choice by gauging the results. (Does it enhance your life, or drain your spirit?)

  9. Remember, in any given moment, life is exactly what you make it. (Find the good in every experience.)

  10. Find a mentor(s) because in this journey of life, you can’t do it alone.

Here’s the ticket that some of you failed to purchase when God offered LIFE: “Whosoever believe in me shall have everlasting life” (John 3:16). To me that’s a no brainer…

As I close this article, I want each of you to know that God’s plan for your life is never meant to bring you sorrow or pain. The struggle against God’s plan for you is what invites the spirits of hardship in your life. If you are repeatedly finding yourself on the short end of life, I decree for you to find your power source and “plug in” because your Life Purpose is Calling.

Will you answer?

“Still Slaying” the Fabulous Tommie Ross

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As we prepared for a fabulous photoshoot for our March/April Edition, it dawned on me that one essential person was missing: my dear friend Tommie Ross. I called Ms. Ross to request her presence, and just as old friends do, she showed up and showed out!

Being in the company of Ms. Ross will compel you to understand how it is that she commands such respect that she is “Still Slaying” even the younger generation. When the Legendary Ms. Tommie Ross walks into a room, all eyes take notice immediately because The Queen of Female Impersonators still reigns!

A native of Houston, Texas who now calls Cordova, Tennessee home, Ms. Ross has been an entertainer in the world of female impersonation for the past 30+ years. Among Ms. Ross’ accolades in pageantry, she is the title holder of over nine prestigious national pageants which include:

Miss Gay USofA
Miss National
Miss Continental
Miss Black America
Miss Sweetheart

…just to name a few.

Being a national title holder has given Ms. Ross the opportunity to travel throughout the United States and overseas, and she is still a highly sought after and reputable entertainer all over the world. Ms. Ross has not only captivated her audiences, she has also raised the bar for those who compete in pageants.

HELLO WORLD, get in Formation, here comes Ms. Tommie Ross!