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TUV MAGAZINE 2021 MARCH-APRIL TRANSFORMATION ISSUE FEATURING ACTOR RODNEY CHESTER

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HAPPY WOMEN’S MONTH, HAPPY SPRING, HAPPY BLACK HISTORY MONTH (which is every month) and HAPPY TRANSFORMATION ISSUE!”

“Transformed People, Transform People!” _CCAR Our issue title is dedicated to the list of awesome advocates, activists, community leaders, non-profit organizers, political warriors, religious champions, womanists, trans-activists, grant funders, and anyone working tirelessly to help transform people’s lives for the better. That is what we do!

On the cover: TUV Magazine secured an exclusive interview with Mr. Rodney Chester, most notably known as Alex Kirby in the LOGOtv series Noah’s Arc, created by Patrik-Ian Polk. We dive into what life has been like after Noah’s Arc and what Rodney has been up to lately. Chester talks about staying sane and productive during the pandemic, rebranding to take over the reins of his professional image, and diving into community outreach as an ambassador for Metro Health DC.

After the ground that Noah’s Arc broke in terms of LGBTQ visibility and opportunity in the entertainment industry, what do you think is still missing to continue that advancement? Who do you think has been pushing that envelope most these days?

We had no idea that we would impact so many lives when we were doing Noah’s Arc. I saw an interview with Billy Porter, and they asked him, about Pose, what was it like being the first to do a gay love scene with two African American men on TV. He corrected the interviewer and said, “Actually, Noah’s Arc was the first.” So, I think what that means is that we still have been pioneers in that way that is being recognized. And he was nice enough to recognize and correct that. Noah’s Arc was ahead of its time because Patrik Ian-Polk, the show’s director, shopped that show everywhere, and nobody wanted it. We just happened to meet up with Logo TV in New York when they were working to establish themselves as the first gay network almost 15 years ago, and they decided to make the show its first scripted series.

You will most definitely will want to catch the rest of this tea!

ACTOR/ACTIVIST RODNEY CHESTER

(Photo Credit: Carell Augustus)

LITERARY BOOK CLUB PICKS FOR THE MARCH – APRIL ARE TWO PIONEERS IN LESBIAN FICTION.

April “Skyy” Blair is a 38-year-old author, screenwriter and playwright from Memphis, TN.  Her first novel, Choices was released in 2006 and quickly gained popularity both within the lesbian and urban fiction on communities. The highly anticipated sequel, Consequences was released in 2009 with high praises and rocketed to the top 10 lesbian best-sellers lists on Amazon.com and in independent bookstores across the country.

Author April “Skyy” Blair 

To date, Skyy has published five Novels in the Choices series which include Choices, Consequences, Crossroads, Full Circle and Southern Comfort. She has been featured in three anthologies, Les Tales: Tempted to Touch and Carl Weber’s: Full Figured Divas 8 and 10. Her most recent novel, Southern Comfort, debuted at number one in lesbian fiction on https://amzn.to/3vncuFZ.

Monika is the author of the #1 international best-selling novel Pretty Boy Blue, Second Edition, and its sequel, The Darkest Shade of Blue. https://amzn.to/2PUfmJX 

Author Monika M. Pickett

Monika M. Pickett’s literary category that is often overlooked, African American lesbian romance. However, her latest release, Pretty Boy Blue, 2nd Edition, has become the number one best-seller on Amazon.com in the U.S. and Canada across multiple categories including lesbian romance and LGBTQ fiction, among others. https://amzn.to/3rIMmTL

Talk Show Host Nigel Ashford 

Nigel Ashford describes how he felt for a long time after being silent for so long until he found his voice through his Facebook Live Show OUTSPOKEN.
The 28-Year-Old, born in Birmingham, AL, but now residing in Nashville, TN is the creator and host of OUTSPOKEN, a show that speaks on serious and light-hearted relevant topics as it relates to culture, issues, changes, and achievements within the LGBTQ community.
The show provides a platform for an audience that seeks access to commentary on politics, health, pop culture, and current events that takes place within our rainbow culture, becoming a voice that exudes positivity, diversity, and equality while captivating an audience through adversity.

D. Majik DeCosta

D. Majik is a Master Hair Stylist with classic skills who never gives less than his best. Since entering the industry, he has amassed an impressive client list, which consists of tastemakers and celebrities like: Kandi Burruss, Tameka Tiny Cottle, LaTocha Scott, Tamika Scott, Robin Givens, Keke Wyatt, Justine Skye, Mike Epps, Michael Jai White, Angell Conwell, Tamala Jones, Towanda Braxton, Trina Braxton, Traci Braxton, and Kim Fields.  His work has provided him a platform to graced the television and movie screen. He is the artist behind the looks that have appeared in Essence, People and InStyle. Majik currently resides in Atlanta but is constantly on the move. He is a true jetsetter who continues to travel the world, working with television/film stars, recording artists and more.

As always it is our esteemed pleasure to provide a diverse media platform to introduce the most dynamic and awesome folxs from around the world. We are always searching for the next person to feature. Don’t be shy please email us at info@tuvmag and let’s get you featured!

Get social with us on all social media outlets @tuvmagazine

OOOH BABY! JAMES EARL HARDY IS COMING TO OUTSPOKEN!

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On Thursday, January 29, 2021 at 7PM CST, TUV Magazine Editor-in-Chief Gwendolyn D. Clemons and Nigel Ashford will collaborate to interview the iconic literary legend James Earl Hardy on OUTSpoken.

OUTSpoken is an online television/talk show that showcases LGBTQIA+ people of color to highlight and uncover the untold stories and realities of their lived experiences.

NIGEL ASHFORD

Nigel Ashford is the creator, producer, and host of OUTSpoken. He resides in Nashville, TN.

You can watch the broadcast live from OUTSpoken’s Facebook and Youtube. https://www.facebook.com/OUTSpokenLGBTQ/

James Earl Hardy is an American playwright, novelist, and journalist.

He is generally considered the first to depict same-sex love stories that take place within the hip-hop community. His writing is largely characterized by its exploration of the African-American LGBTQ experience.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00PCFX08W/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tkin_p1_i0

James Earl Hardy’s classic novel “B-Boy Blues” celebrates its 25th Anniversary.  Years before “homo thug” and “down low” became infamous catchphrases, there was B-BOY BLUES.

Hardy’s novel ushered in the Africentric gay fiction genre, and put Black-on-Black male love on both the map and the bestseller lists! Regarded as one of the first novels exploring Black gay romance themes, the self-published “B-Boy Blues” became a cult classic and is considered required reading for Black men of the LGTBQ+ community.

JAMES EARL HARDY

Hardy’s original best-selling novel spawned a series of books including “If Only For One Nite,” “The Day Eazy-E Died,” “Love The One You’re With” and “A House is Not a Home” – mostly named after R&B songs and lyrics popularized by late R&B powerhouse Luther Vandross.

Jussie Smollett

Jussie Smollett is readying his feature film directorial debut with a film adaptation of James Earl Hardy’s groundbreaking novel “B-Boy Blues.”

Gwendolyn D. Clemons is TUV Media Co-Founder. She is the co-producer, co-creator, and co-host of The Unleashed Voice Talks. TUV Talks is an online television/talk show that features the lives of the Black LGBTQIA+ community. https://www.facebook.com/search/top?q=tuv%20magazine

Gwendolyn D. Clemons, Editor-in-Chief of TUV Media

 

WHO IS MADISON BUTLER? She’s One of the Top Black Queer Voices on LinkedIn!

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The 2021 Inaugural Impact Issue is Here!

The 2021 Impact Issue is here with an emphasis on how to “Live Above Mediocrity!” Bye 2020, because you started rough with the death of Kobe Bryant and ending with the world shutting down due to Covid-19. The crisis we encountered caused a great pause in the way we went about our daily lives. It created opportunities for new beginnings for some and ended in demise for others.

Inside this issue we feature individuals that persevered doing a period where many folded. We searched for stories to give excellent examples of how one can pivot and thrive during a pandemic. Be reminded that there will always be challenges and oppositions in life. The objective is to learn how to survive the storms!

On the cover of the 2021 Impact Issue is Madison “Blue-Haired Unicorn” Butler. Madison is one of the most vociferous voices for Queer and Black Folxs on LinkedIn. Madison is self described as being “Queer AF.” In her own rites Madison is a rising social media star. Madison’s is known for her daily posts that creates a fire storm for debates on LinkedIn.” Almost daily Madison’s posts goes viral with thousands of comments and shares. Madison is notable known to be the outspoken voice against Corporate America on how they fail to promote diversity and inclusion in the workplace.

Madison & her Partner Reese

“Our voices are magic, and they deserve to be heard. Our struggles are shared, and we should be able to speak about them freely. Change only comes when we can call out the problem. Change comes from being uncomfortable. I am here to start the conversation.” _Butler https://www.bluehairedunicorn.com/

SIP * SOAK * SMOKE

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Elle’s Elixirs is a wellness brand that knows self-care and wellness look different for different women. They provide creative solutions making self care simple and attainable. They offer our customers three innovative approaches that promote relaxation, creativity and fulfillment through the sip, soaking or smoking our herbal elixirs. The elixirs consist of hibiscus, peppermint, raspberry leaf, rose petals, blue cornflowers and industrial hemp. Hemp is a plant that has a rich nutrition profile and helps relieve pain and anxiety. Their eccentric glam style gives our brand a signature look and feel that always invokes curiosity with potential customers. Their niche’ customers are in search of a product that doesn’t take up a lot of time in their day, allows them to incorporate wellness into their regular activities and helps them live life with natural wellness alternatives by sip, soaking or smoking our products. Batiste’s wellness model, tagline, eccentric glam aesthetic, and unique product offerings setting her apart from the competition.

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https://www.elleselixirs.com/

In 2021, We Want To be Where The Money Resides!

Diamond Wallace, Owner & Co-Founder of https://www.facebook.com/TheFortunePartners/

Diamond Wallace, owner and Co-Founder of The Fortune Partners, LLC., started in 2018 and specialize in helping people grow and save money. The Fortune Partners programs focuses on helping clients understand banking/budgeting, credit, insurance, investments and taxes. Wallace and her business partner saw a need and an opportunity in the community for financial literacy. As interest increased in ownership and generational wealth. Reeves and Wallace, quickly realized there was an opportunity to teach basics financial literacy to the less fortunate. Dae Brackett-Reeves and Wallace created their company with the goals of being “hope dealers” to underserved communities in Memphis, TN. The Fortune Partners strive for their clients to feel like Beyonce; when she said, “My great great grand-children already rich…”_ Wallace

Your Mental Health Should be Your Priority in 2021!

Meditate * Journal * Reflect

After the stress of 2020, one mental health expert recommends people meditate, journal and reflect on what they want out of 2021. Mental health experts say you might want to rethink how you tackle your 2021 New Year’s resolutions. 2020 has been rough. From the physical and financial toll of the pandemic, a polarizing election year and a racial reckoning, plenty of people were ready to say goodbye to 2020, and goodbye to the traditional New Year’s resolutions. 

Setting lofty 2021 goals can create artificial pressures by doing it at the beginning of the year it tends to throw a lot of people off. Instead, if you set an intention by a positive feeling that you have, you’re more likely to chase that. Remember this is a marathon, not a sprint!

Celebrity Chef Kenneth McDuffie Debuts on “Hell’s Kitchen!”

Celebrity Chef Kenneth McDuffie

Philadelphia native Chef Kenneth McDuffie will be featured in Season 19 Hell’s Kitchen with Chef Ramsey. McDuffie’s is excited about the opportunities afforded him since the show aired and he is now taking his talents to South Carolina.

Hell’s Kitchen is one of the most successful culinary competitions. Chefs execute dishes, in challenges and in the dinner service. They will have to prove that they have the palate, the leadership and the drive to become part of the Ramsay restaurant group. Be sure to watch Hell’s Kitchen Season 19 on FOX Thursday nights at 8 p.m. ET/PT.

2021 January – February Literary Corner Selections!

Author Victor Carrington

Just When You Thought You Knew Me” is a book filled with an emotional rollercoaster ride. Carrington said, “the things that happened to him made him the man he is today.” Carrington’s journey gives a deeper to explanation of what happened to him by not stopping at that point in his life! There is a message of hope for anyone striving to repair damage from their actions, anyone struggling with their sexuality, or anyone experiencing neglect from their family for being who they are.

 

Author Jeremy Johnson

How do you define intimacy? Of the four kinds of intimacy, which one do you feel is most relevant to you and why? When was the last time you remember having an intimate experience? Did it gives you goose bumps? In Intimacy from His View-What Black Men Have to Say About Intimacy, debut author and certified life coach, Jeremy J. Johnson presents us with an insightful look at how black men perceive this big, little, eight-letter word.

The Impact Issue

We hope that you enjoy all of the fantastic stories in the 2021 Inaugural Issue. We are intentional about providing valuable content to help you find and create your reality. To start we will offer nuggets to help transform your mindset. “If you can change your thoughts, you can change your world.” Bob Proctor

Get social with us on Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram @tuvmagazine. Do you want to be featured in TUV Magazine? Please email us or send your submission to info@tuvmag.com.

Be Well. Do Well. Expect to be Well.

CHOOSE YOUR HARD!

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“We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit” Aristotle

I can’t lie: 2020 was hard as hell for me! I survived #Covid19 but I’m still dealing with the residual effects of the damage the virus did to my physical and mental health. I watched the world around me change as if I was living in The Matrix or some other sci-fi movie. I waited to hear, “Welcome to Round 4 of Jumanji,” to see if I would survive the video game I was trapped in! 2020 was filled with death, illness, violence, spiritual warfare, religious warfare, bigotry, murder and vile hatred toward the black transgender community, police genocide, and an in-your-face resurgence of White Supremacy being led by #45, our sitting president. This brings me to the title of my article… “CHOOSE YOUR HARD!”

I chose to write about this topic because it was therapy to me. I could not keep the goodness of this revelation to myself. As you journey through life, you will encounter many trials and tribulations. The lessons of these trials set before you are to prepare you for your victory or good rewards. I know this sounds cliché, but it is true. You see, everything in life is inextricably mingled and overlapping. It’s a melancholy truth that just because you can’t see it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. Life is hard in and of itself, and that is why it’s important to CHOOSE YOUR HARD! How do you “choose your hard”? I’m glad you asked!

Transformation Coach Gwendolyn D. Clemons, Editor-in-Chief of TUV Media

In choosing your hard it should become apparent that in life all things are fair game. With every situation you encounter there is a polar opposite option available for you. Marriage is hard, and yet getting a divorce is hard. Choose your hard. Obesity is hard, and yet being fit is hard. Choose your hard. Being is debt is hard, and yet being financially disciplined is hard. Choose your hard. Getting to work on time is hard, and yet being fired is hard. Choose your hard. Being broke is hard, and yet becoming wealthy is hard. Choose your hard. Denying yourself your favorite foods is hard, and yet becoming ill because of your poor food choices will be hard. Either way — choose your hard! Neither I, nor anyone else, can choose for you!

This topic is speaking only to that which is within our realm of influence: the life circumstances that we can change, and not the things that are out of our control.

Be Well_ Do Well_ Receive Well_

Coach Gwen

for booking or speaking engagements contact Coach Gwen at info@gwenclemons.com

Ooooh BABY We Got An Exclusive Interview With Actor Brian Jordan, Jr.

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TUV Magazine is celebrating their 5th Year Anniversary with their annual World AIDS Day Issue. This World AIDS Day Issue is for you! It is for you because better education is needed on a public health crisis occurring, called HIV.

“The fact that the Southern region of the U.S. is still being ravished with new HIV Diagnosis in 2020 is unacceptable.” The fact that HIV is still rising in the South means that “SEX” should not be an anomaly in our society!”

Gwendolyn Clemons, Editor-in Chief of TUV Magazine

WHAT IS WORLD AIDS DAY?

World AIDS Day takes place on 1 December each year. It’s an opportunity for people worldwide to unite in the fight against HIV, to show support for people living with HIV, and to commemorate those who have died from an AIDS-related illness. Founded in 1988, World AIDS Day was the first ever global health day.

WHY IS WORLD AIDS DAY IMPORTANT?https://www.worldaidsday.org/about/

World AIDS Day is important because it reminds the public and government that HIV has not gone away – there is still a vital need to raise money, increase awareness, fight prejudice and improve education.

Globally, there are an estimated 38 million people who have the virus. Despite the virus only being identified in 1984, more than 35 million people have died of HIV or AIDS, making it one of the most destructive pandemics in history.

Actor Brian Jordan Jr. Exclusive Interview

Actor Brian Jordan, Jr.

Actor Brian Jordan, Jr. talks the importance of Black Millennials, his deepest passions, and landing a role of “Maurice Webb” in Tyler Perry’s hit show Sistas” on BET.

If you’ve ever watched Tyler Perry’s sitcom Sistas on BET you’d be instantly drawn to the hilarious character Maurice Webb (played by Jordan). In Jordan’s interview he shares the valuable lessons of landing the role as a black gay man.

Jordan said “Of all the beautiful gifts that have come from landing this role, on this show, at this time—the greatest is the opportunity to learn, explore, and portray such a beautifully-textured, marginalized and often forgotten group of humans: black queer people. I am empowered by Maurice’s story being so parallel to so many in real life.”

https://www.instagram.com/brianjordanjr/?hl=en

Tyler Perry’s hit show Sistas airs on BET every Wednesday. Check your local listing for show times.

Meet HIV Advocate Shadawn McCants

Shadawn McCants Founder of the Nonprofit 2KnowIs2Live

In this World AIDS Day issue we intentionally featured individuals “Living Positively” with the HIV diagnosis. Meet Shadawn McCants a Powerhouse Advocate, Licensed Professional Counselor, Motivational Speaker, and Trainer. But more importantly a Beautiful African American Woman living with HIV. https://www.knowandlivecounseling.com/

“I am grateful to have the opportunity to be the Harriet Tubman for this generation. I don’t take lightly my assignment to be brave, courageous and a bridge over troubled waters even when I don’t know the outcome. My work will not end until there is an End to the Epidemic!”

Eddie Wiley Celebrates His Seroversary!

Eddie Wiley TUV MSM Correspondence

To commemorate World AIDS Day, Eddie Wiley boldy talks about celebrating his seroversary. What’s a seroversary? Seroversary is the date of one’s HIV diagnosis. Wiley shares his transparent life as a HIV positive Black man in hopes to encourage others living positively.

” I celebrate my seroversary to combat that stigma people living with HIV face and even sometimes impose on their own lives. It’s not easier living out loud with your status than it is to keep it private. The stigma still has an impact both ways.”

The Matchmaker Finds Love for Himself

Lamont & Art White

The founder of Better Way To Meet, a matchmaking service found love for himself! Art and Lamont celebrated their union Friday, September 25, 2020 at the Barn at Little River with 100 of their family members and friends. The outdoor ceremony and reception were packed with love and entertainment, which included a soloist by Tiffany Adams-Williams, drag performance by the legendary Raquel Lord, reading by Charles Hughes of Lambda Vodka, and officiation by Bishop O.C. Allen of the Vision Church of Atlanta.

You never know who God will send your way, so always be open to any possibility. The matchmaker, Mr. Lamont White, can help you find love as well. Check out www.betterwaytomeet.com to learn more about matchmaking services, dating coaching, and LGBT couples counseling.

http://www.betterwaytomeet.com/

The World AIDS Day is a staple issue of our calendar each year. It is personal because we’ve lost family members and friends to HIV/AIDS long before advocacy became mainstream. It is our commitment to remember their lives by raising awareness to eradicate HIV from our communities.

Book of the Month |Literary Corner

Author Terry Dyer

https://www.amazon.com/Letters-GAY-BLACK-Terry-Dyer/dp/B08CPLDRTC

Connect with TUV Media if you have a story to share or interested in becoming a regular contributor. We are always looking for DOPE writers. Email us at info@tuvmag.com

Happy Holidays, Mask Up, Practice Social Distancing, & Stay Safe!

COVID-19 Is Quietly Ravaging The LGBTQ Community

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African American Woman in medical mask
From The Hill by David Johns and Earl Fowlkes Jr.

A growing body of research is showing that Black people are being hit disproportionately hard by the COVID-19 pandemic, but a lack of LGBTQ-inclusive data designed to capture the experiences of people who are both racial and sexual minorities renders many of us invisible — and puts us at even greater risk of harm.

There’s growing reason to worry that the pandemic is also particularly dangerous for diverse members of the LGTBQ and same gender loving (SGL), the affirming term some members of the Black community use to define themselves, particularly if they’re older. Unfortunately, there’s no way to know for sure because the government isn’t yet collecting the kind of detailed data that would show the extent of the problem — or provide a roadmap for mitigating the risks the disease poses to LGBTQ Americans who are already marginalized, discriminated against, and otherwise punished simply for being who they are.

Compounding the challenge of data collection is the Trump Administration’s call to force hospitals to report data to an HHS contractor instead of the Center for Disease Control, creating further opaqueness around COVID-19 data collection.

The limited data that we do have on the LGBTQ community offers a disturbing snapshot of the impact the COVID-19 pandemic has on our communities. For one, there’s the economic toll. Two in five LGBTQ people work in the five industries most impacted by the pandemic — food service, hospitals, K-12 education, colleges, and retail — compared to just one in five non-LGBTQ people, according to a survey from the Human Rights Campaign Foundation. All told, more than 5 million LGBTQ workers in these industries could be significantly affected by the pandemic.

The numbers are even worse for LGBTQ/SGL people of color. Among this group, 38 percent have had their work hours reduced, compared to 34 percent of the general population, according to the HRC. And 22 percent have become unemployed during the pandemic, versus 13 percent of the general population.

These job losses are even more dangerous in light of how many LGBTQ people already lived in poverty before COVID-19 struck. One 2019 analysis from the Williams Institute found that 22 percent of LGBTQ adults — including an alarming 29 percent of transgender adults — live in poverty, compared to 16 percent of straight and cisgender peers.

LGBTQ Americans also frequently lack reliable access to health care — a literal life-and-death danger in the midst of a pandemic. A national survey conducted by the Center for American Progress found that 29 percent of transgender adults had been refused care. Nine percent of LGBTQ people reported that a physician had used harsh or abusive language while treating them.

Many older members of the LGBTQ community also lack the support systems that others rely on as they age, particularly when health issues emerge. Prior to the COVID-19 pandemic,  AARP found that over 75 percent of older LGBTQ people were concerned about having adequate family or social support to rely on as they age. AARP data reveals that 46 percent of gay men 45 and older live alone. LGBTQ seniors are also less likely to have adult children to look out for them, in part due to a slew of laws deliberately designed to prevent LGBTQ people from forming legally-recognized families or adopting children.

Yet we still don’t have nearly the full picture of how COVID-19 is impacting LGBTQ communities — in large part because local and federal policymakers simply aren’t collecting data on this group. So it’s easy for policymakers to ignore these Americans — and for the plight of the LGBTQ community to go unnoticed. It’s time to ensure COVID-19 data is disaggregated by sexual orientation and gender identity —  in addition to race, ethnicity, and other factors. That is why we joined a coalition of civil rights and health equity groups called We Must Count calling for the collection and release of COVID-19 demographic data because we know that when communities are invisible in the data, they are also invisible in interventions and resources.

And beyond COVID-19, we must continue to boost our data collection efforts. There are too few federal surveys with data on sexual orientation and gender identity. Counting same-sex couples in a limited number of U.S. Census Bureau surveys is not enough. Without necessary inclusion, our COVID-19 relief and recovery efforts will miss those who need it the most.

LGBTQ Americans — especially Black, Brown, and older LGBTQ/SGL people — have endured strenuous economic and health hurdles for far too long. The COVID-19 pandemic has compounded these issues. It is imperative to collect data on how COVID-19 is impacting these communities. And we must ensure that LGBTQ/SGL people are counted for years to come.

David J. Johns serves as the executive director of the National Black Justice Coalition, the nation’s leading civil rights organization dedicated to Black lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, and same-gender-loving (LGBTQ) people.

Earl Fowlkes, Jr. serves as the President/CEO of the Center For Black Equity, Inc., the only Black LGBT international organization in the world.

HONORING TRANSGENDER AWARENESS WEEK!

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What is Transgender Awareness Week?

Transgender Awareness Week is a week when transgender people and their allies take action to bring attention to the community by educating the public about who transgender people are, sharing stories and experiences, and advancing advocacy around the issues of prejudice, discrimination, and violence that affect the transgender community.

Transgender Awareness Week is a week devoted to raising the visibility of the transgender, non-binary and gender-nonconforming community that is celebrated November 13 – 19, 2020. This year that message couldn’t be more powerful, said Cathy Renna, communications director of the National LGBTQ Task Force.

“Being trans is the third-most-interesting thing about me” is what Renna said she hears from many transgender young people these days. “They want to be seen as multifaceted people – not what they are, who they are. What we are seeing around young people is incredibly inspiring.”

Threats to Transgender rights in recent years:

 • Transgender people were barred from serving in the military.

• The words “transgender” and “diversity” were banned in CDC reports.

• There have been challenges at the state level with bathroom bills and religious exemption laws.

• And 2020 saw a sad milestone: At least 34 transgender or gender nonconforming people were killed by violence, most of them Black and Latino women, according to the Human Rights Coalition. (Those deaths will be marked on Transgender Day of Remembrance on Nov. 20.)

But there also have been high points, most notably the election. President-elect Joe Biden, who spoke for transgender rights at a town hall, has vowed to eliminate discriminatory executive orders from President Donald Trump and has made LGBTQ equality part of his platform.

Voters also gave at least eight transgender, nonbinary and gender-nonconforming state candidates victories on Election Day, including tapping the nation’s first openly transgender state senator

And a Supreme Court ruling in June affirmed protection of LGBTQ workers from discrimination.

“It’s been said that once people see the media stereotypes, tropes, and clichéd portrayals stacked together in DISCLOSURE, it’s impossible to unsee them. For trans people and allies, DISCLOSURE is an important survey of how media has treated trans people, influencing not only how trans people have come to view themselves but also how the world has, with a call-to-action to better understand and support the community–on screen and off” (GLAAD).

 

Community Mourns The Passing of Monica Roberts, African-American Blogger, Transgender Rights Activist & TransGriot Creator

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Condolences to the family of journalist and transgender pioneer Monica Roberts. According to multiple news sources they are reporting that she passed on today (October 08, 2020).

Monica Roberts death is trending on all major social media outlets and has shocked and sadden the Black LGBTQIA+ community. Monica was the founder of TransGriot an award winning blog and Trans-News outlet.

Monica Roberts was more than a blogger, she used her “superpowers” to bring justice to the Trans Community. According to the Advocate, “Monica Roberts is best known as being one of the first people – not just among reporters, but activists as well – on the story when a killing strikes in the trans or gender-expressive communities.”

https://www.advocate.com/exclusives/2020/5/15/monica-roberts-uses-her-blog-bring-justice-trans-community

Love and Light to you Dear Sister! Rest in Love!

Ms. Monica Roberts (Source Facebook) 

https://transgriot.blogspot.com/

About Monica: Monica Roberts, AKA the TransGriot (Gree-oh) is a native Houstonian, GLAAD award winning blogger, writer, and award winning trans human rights advocate. She’s the founding editor of TransGriot, and her writing has appeared at the Bilerico Project, Ebony.com, The Huffington Post and the Advocate. She works to foster understanding and acceptance of trans people inside and outside communities of color. Among her many honors are the Virginia Prince Transgender Pioneer Award, the Robert Coles Call of Service Award. the Barbara Jordan Breaking Barriers Award, and the 2020 Susan J Hyde Award for Longevity In The Movement

Why You Should Take The 2020 Black LGBTQ Community Survey & Why It Matters!

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Dear LGBTQ Community:
Please take the Black LGBTQ Community Survey!
For nearly a decade, this survey has provided free data to help non-profits, universities, and organizations better understand and serve the Black LGBTQ community. The report will be published on the CMI.info website for free download on approximately December 15.
Also, participation in this survey gives important feedback to our LGBTQ community media and charities, and provides data to companies and organizations interested in serving our community, sponsoring our events, and supporting their LGBTQ employees.
You’ll have an opportunity to participate in a drawing for one of twenty $100 gift cards. The questions should take about 15 minutes to complete. The survey will close on October 30, 2020.
Thank you
TUV Magazine
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 https://survey.cmi.info/se/359D342B06DB7A58?CMID=1007

A Hard Examination of P-Valley & Black Culture & Human Sexuality

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Memphis-native and Oliver Award-winning playwright, Katori Hall is the talk of the town. Her new television series P-Valley was unleashed on Starz on July 12, 2020 and has taken the summer television lineup by storm. The series is an enduring saga of money, power, and respect; takes place in the Mississippi Delta in the fictional town of Chucalissa. Hall’s unique choice of writing style centers itself in the prophetic tradition of black southern folklore writers such as Zora Neale Hurston and is most importantly, written from a womanist perspective. Each character in the story bends the arc of the politics of respectability in black culture and exposes the complexities of human sexuality.

The most scintillating storyline of the series involves the taboo sexual relationship between the non-binary character Uncle Clifford, played by rising actor Nico Annan and straight local rapper and hustler Lil’ Murda, portrayed by J. Alphonse Nicholson. The mixed reaction from viewers has sparked a firestorm of controversy on social media concerning ideals of black masculinity and how those perceptions shape and influence public opinion. In real life, both Uncle Clifford and Lil’ Murda are caricatures of black popular culture that exists in the minds of the mainstream population. On one hand, genderqueer Uncle Clifford is familiar to the audience and is largely accepted for her flamboyant personality and acute sense of women’s fashion. On the other hand, Lil’ Murda is vehemently rejected. Lil’ Murda’s persona represents heteronormative thug appeal; he is hyper masculine, very attractive and has the respect of everyone around the town of Chucalissa. In Episode 1: Perpetratin’, Katori Hall takes us into unchartered territory on television in P-Valley by normalizing eroticism between a straight and gay male.

From the moment of Lil’ Murda and Uncle Clifford’s first encounter, there is an element of danger that we in the LGBTQIA community sense. In Episode 2: Scars, Lil’ Murda breaks in Uncle Clifford’s car to discuss their previous arrangement to play his music in the club. Uncle Clifford pleads with him to go ahead and kill her and get it over with. According to the Human Rights Campaign, in 2019 there were 27 murders of non-binary and transgender people in the United States reported, majority of whom were African American. Could Uncle Clifford’s insecurities about pursuing a romantic love interest be a result of unchecked trauma and violence perpetuated against gay and lesbian people? Nico Annan stated in an interview with TV Guide that playing the role of Uncle Clifford caused him to check over his own prejudices and assumptions about how this relationship would unfold. Annan stated: “I realized how conditioned I had been as a gay man.” 

Club Pynk is a space reserved for heterosexual men to gather for entertainment. Despite her proprietorship, Uncle Clifford enters that private space and disrupts societal norms by engaging in a romantic relationship with a man who is largely desired by women. This is a forbidden liaison. The sex scene set into motion a huge public debate on its appropriateness. Katori Hall took to Twitter on August 2, 2020 to state her position: “I knew splicing the scene of Mississippi’s dance with the Uncle Clifford and Lil Murda’s sex scene was going to be divisive. Homophobia is rampant in our community. P-Valley is a show that honestly explores the sexuality of ALL black people.” 

In Episode 4: The Trap, Pico confronts Lil’ Murda about rumors floating around that he is gay, which results in a huge brawl and a loss of friendship. Straight men like Lil’ Murda are often silenced and made to feel ashamed for being attracted to effeminate men and transgender women. On Monday, August 19, 2019 Marcus “Reese” Willoughby of Philadelphia, PA committed suicide after an onslaught of violent transphobic bullying over Twitter for dating a transgender woman. Willoughby stated: Y’all can say whatever about Faith I really don’t care if she not passable I don’t care if she wasn’t born a woman she is a woman to me & I love her flaws that’s what makes her Faith if you heard her story it’s motivating….. I’m happy you should be happy for me.” 

We are faced with the question: who is worthy of love? In Episode 5: Belly, Lil’ Murda offers to take Uncle Clifford on a date. Uncle Clifford replies: “You know good and goddam well you and me ain’t made for the outside. Where are you going to take me? You want to take me on a romantic walk down by the river? Well, the last two f—–s who did that found themselves floating up in it. You wanna take me to over to the Hot Wing Castle for that lemon pepper wet? Well the last two d—s who did that found their b——–s turned out by a train of truckers.” Uncle Clifford and Lil’ Murda are both deserving of love and the right to live out loud without fear of violence. Normalizing black gay love in public spaces is a revolutionary act within itself. Episode 6: Legacy was a breakthrough when Lil’ Murda is introduced to Uncle Clifford’s grandmother Ernestine, played by Loretta Devine. This episode affirms family love and acceptance as a place of real healing that message needs to be seen and heard by mainstream audiences.

Somehow throughout all of the drama that has unfolded this season Lil’ Murda finds himself still trapped in the closet. In Episode 7: Last Call for Alcohol, we realize that people around town are beginning to suspect about Lil’ Murda’s relationship with Uncle Clifford. Both Keyshawn and Woody express genuine concern for Lemarcus aka Lil’ Murda by warning him to protect his reputation. Woody reveals to him that he caught Lil’ Murda down by the river with Uncle Clifford. He even goes as far as to question Lil’ Murda by stating: “I thought this was a one-time thing? I don’t get it. You have all these women throwing themselves at you…you are around here rolling in the bushes and done caught feelings for a f—-?”  LBGT Celebrities often have a much more difficult journey revealing their sexuality to mainstream audiences. The show resonates in a very realistic way. Legendary So So Def rapper and radio personality Da Brat, is one glaring example of how we can stand in our own truths. On March 26, 2020 she revealed to the public that she is engaged to be married to Jesseca Dupart. She wrote on IG: “Needless to say… I’ve always been a kind of private person until I met my heart’s match who handles some things differently than I do. I have never experienced this feeling. It’s so overwhelming that often I find myself in a daze hoping to never get pinched to see if it’s real so I can live in this dream forever.” 

P-Valley was renewed for a second season, so this story is far from over. The outcome of Lil’ Murda and Uncle Clifford’s relationship remains a mystery to us all. Whether or not their romance withstands the test of time in the series remains to be seen. Katori Hall has done something unprecedented on television by merging all spectrums of the black love together in one story. We love to see it.

Derrick Barrett